Thursday, November 13, 2008

Thursday Night

How very special to see you here, Lori! You mean such a great deal to Mark and I. He asked me to write tonight. He has had a rough couple of days. He's been fairly irritable and I attribute that to the increase in the medications. The dogs, who worry so about him and run to him at his every move, are really almost more than anyone can handle. It's not their fault - they are concerned and don't know how else to show it. But four big dogs circling every time you try to go the bathroom or across the bedroom can be a bit much and I think it's starting to get to him. When I'm home, I try to keep them occupied, but there's no one here during the day to give them anything else to do but sit as closely as they can and get under foot. Mark's trying to sleep again now, so I'm going to watch tv out in the living room and that will give him some peace. We love you all and ask that you keep us in your prayers. I don't know if we would have made it so far with so much strength without all of you.

19 comments:

Carol said...

Hugs to you both (and to your loving doggies).

Crayl said...

You asked what I would do if I knew I only had a year..I am going to ponder it for a day or two, and get back to you. I am glad you are surrounded by people who love and care for you, and apparently big dogs that love you as well:)

Dawn said...

Hello to both of you!

I am a friend of Jen (Dust Bunny Hostage) and she suggested I come visit you. I'm going to read back on your blog and catch up on your postings. And, I'll be back often.

I won't pretend to offer wise words as wisdom comes from experience and I haven't experienced anything like what you and your family are going through right now. I am sincerely touched by the love you two have for each other - that is very evident in both of your words. Please know that I am praying for you.

Blessings upon both of you today!

The Southern Mom said...
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marky said...

Hi, I came by way of Jen's blog too!
Big hugs to both of you and to your dogs who obviously love you very much!
praying for today to hold wonderful blessings!

Denyse said...

Hello Mark & Rebecca, Jen directed me this way. I've been touched by your blog this morning. So many times we don't know what to say to people living with cancer. Your honesty gives us insight. Please keep blogging and we'll keep praying.

Jerri junque said...

Once again, I am drawn to your blog through Jenn. I just want you to know that you both will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs

Dawn @ simply transparent said...

hello..I'm thinking of you.

The Southern Mom said...

Hi, Mark and Rebecca! I'm also a friend of Jen's and I'm just stopping in to add my hugs and blessings! Everything Dawn (above comment) said, I want you to know I feel the same way. (just didn't want to take up your time to say the same way, as she said it so eloquently).

I'll be checking back in soon. Big, long, tight hugs to you both!

Leigh of Tales from Bloggeritaville said...

Hi.

I am a friend of Jennifer's (DBH). Jen is one of those people who humbles me with her spirit. She can collect the most awesome prayer warriors and here wew are to rally for you. For your life. For your spirit. I can't even begin to imagine what thoughts my enter your head, but I pray that they be coupled with the presence of God's love.
I will continue to drop in on you. And I will pray for you.
In Christ,
Leigh

Nadine said...

Jennifer asked that I would stop by. I admire your courage in documenting your struggle and process along the way of a very difficult time in your life. I will be praying for you both.

Valarie Lea said...

I wish that I had some wonderful words of wisdom to give you. I don't though. What I can do is pray and that is exactly what I will do. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

Yo Mark!

TGIF. today is foggy in Richmond. I continue to pray for you and Rebecca. Your dogs obviously love you. How about your cyber fans! Awesome.

Here's another hug!

PEACE to you and Rebecca.

ali

Scarlet said...

I will be praying for you and Mark. My heart goes out to both of you and know that you will be in my thoughts. God bless.

PS - I've come via Jennifer's blog to say hello...and I'll be back!

Jess said...

I'm here from Jennifer... and i will be back everyday.

This has touched my heart so much. I will be praying for you and your family through these times.

It's good that you understand the dogs... and love them.

Have as best of a weekend as you can.

Prayers,Love, Hugs, and Blessings,
Jess

Louise said...

Found you through Jen...
You are in my thoughts and prayers today!
HUGS to you both!!!

Valerie said...

Jen posted a wonderful blog with your link. I am glad she did. I'm going to be coming back often. You and your family are in my prayers.

California Girl said...

I was directed to your site by Jen and my arms are reaching around you during this time. This seems like a good outlet for you and I am glad that there are caring people in this world to bring you some measure of peace.

I went through this with my Mom. My heart breaks at your pain. I am so sorry that you have to go through this but I am so gratified that you are not letting it stand in your way of being who you are. No pretense, no shying away from the truth. There isn't time for it, is there? It takes a strong person to share what you're going through. You have a community of strangers who are sharing your journey. Thank you for taking us along.

Travis Cody said...

Animals are a great comfort, but sometimes they just get to comforting a little too much! I always feel bad when I shove my cat away...he doesn't understand I just want a little space.